Of late, my mood has been sour. To be precise, I have been having a constant itch under my skin for the past one day. Interestingly, with the monsoons in full swing here, it’s not the regular kind of bug bites that can be dealt with anti-inflammatory medications or repellants. It’s more of a people kind.
If there is one thing I dislike like more than “nosy Parker” is someone who doesn’t ask a question outright but rather asks ten different people who know the person concerned. And oh yes, eventually the news reaches the concerned and “the itching” starts.
As far as work or even neighborhood is concerned, I ‘m not much of a talker and definitely, I’m not one to flash details of my private or professional life. I don’t like being a walking radio station!! But, if you ask me something outright, I‘ll definitely answer.
To cure “the itch”, means confronting the person but sometimes, I feel what the point of it is. The chance of such a similar situation not happening again is slim. So, how do I stop the itching?
Three options my best pals suggested.
“The art of ignoring the person who had initiated the rumor. Especially if the person is just an associate more or less, not a real friend. After all, no point getting your nerves riled over someone unimportant.”
“Or to ignore the irritation of the itch by diverting my mind. Maybe mentally indulging in the hanging of the concerned would help.”
“Or confrontation, which may or may not put an end to the problems.”
As of now, I am totally undecided. One thing for sure, I can’t waste my time on this. Need to bring my mood back to normal.
I wonder what anyone else would do in a situation like this. What would you do?
June 28th, 2011 at 4:09 pm
If the person in question continues being a pain… tell em off. Maybe not with a full on roar… but nicely (depending on situation obviously). Otherwise… ignore as the only nerves that get frazzled by thinking about it are yours.
Hope the itch goes away.
July 1st, 2011 at 11:23 pm
Ignorance worked blissfully. The itch has faded and yes, life is definitely better now. M free !!! 🙂
June 29th, 2011 at 3:59 pm
Hi, Just a note to say that I have linked this post to my recent blog post. If you want to check it go to
http://crayzys.blogspot.com/2011/06/got-stress-does-it-make-you-itch-all.html
Have a good Non-Itchy Day!
July 1st, 2011 at 11:26 pm
Hi, So similar thoughts are running across the networks. Makes the itchy days feel less itchy !!! Neat post you have there, though the field may not be freely available always.
Thanks for the link !! Hope to have an ” itch free” weekend !!
June 29th, 2011 at 6:45 pm
Hi. Fellow Itch ‘Thinker.’
Enjoyed your itching post and the very apt photo. I, too, am undecided about if it a face-off or an ignore step when the itch continues.I usually opt for diversion until the intensitivity level of the itch requires my attention.
I will return to explore your other thoughts. Good Luck with your writing. I made a link to this itching post in my blog entry at
http://crayzys.blogspot.com/2011/06/got-stress-does-it-make-you-itch-all.html
Enjoy the the moment.
Jean
July 1st, 2011 at 11:22 pm
Hi, ‘m really enjoying the post-itch moments. Feeling blissfully carefree.Diversion worked this time. Or as you said, on the field, can pack a wallop in a single kick.
Pretty interesting blog you have there. Need to read the rest of the posts.
Thanks for stopping by.
Kyle J